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My Group Isn’t Following “the Rules!”

My skills in navigating conflict were nearly nonexistent when I arrived in Al-Anon. My options were all or nothing—either fight my way through in a desperate effort to be recognized as being right, or walk away in silence,

Loving Guidelines

Recently I had the privilege of listening to a sponsee’s Fifth Step. As they were telling me the many ways they had harmed themselves, I asked, “What rule was that due to?” They burst into tears. That rule

Our Welcome Format

“Could we please go around the room and introduce ourselves by our first name?” As a newcomer, this phrase held special significance for me. When I first came into an Al-Anon meeting, each person around the table shared

Let Recovery Begin with Me

Before I came into Al-Anon, I thought that my fate was entirely connected to that of my alcoholic loved one. I thought that when my loved one got sober, our family problems would go away. I felt helpless

WSO Staff and Volunteer Area Visits

Interested in revitalizing Al-Anon service in your Area? Could your Area use a refresher on the links of service? Do you have a new panel that might benefit from some service inspiration? Are you connected with a growing

Carrying the Message: A Gift of Serenity

Today, I am grateful to share the gift of serenity I’ve received through the worldwide fellowship of Al‑Anon Family Groups. Like many others, I came to Al‑Anon overwhelmed by a loved one’s drinking and the chaos it brought

Seeking Answers

I came into Al‑Anon looking for answers, believing I needed to fix the alcoholic in my life. I expected to hear how to do that at an Al‑Anon meeting. Life was chaotic at the time, and I wanted

I’ve Been There Too

Have you ever been sitting in an Al‑Anon meeting and, after a member shares, you hear someone respond with, “Glad you are here”? Maybe on your way out, you pass someone chatting with a newcomer and hear them

Learning to Listen

Before I came to Al‑Anon, I thought I was a great listener and that I had the answers to everything. I would often give advice and voice my opinions, even when no one asked. I did this mostly

Honoring More Than 75 Years of Public Outreach

As Al-Anon Family Group Headquarters, Inc. approaches its 75th anniversary, we celebrate the enduring impact of public outreach in bringing hope to families and friends of alcoholics. Even before our incorporation as a nonprofit in 1951, Al-Anon members shared

Men Are Welcome, Too!

For many of us, walking into that first meeting felt uncomfortable. We were trying to make sense of why our loved ones behave the way they do. We wondered if anyone could truly understand what we’d been through.

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